modern parenting #1

Seriously..who don't have any issue / hatred with their parents. i admit that even my dad passed away when im 5, i doesn't impress my mom much but rebelled more. i forgot how many times , me seeing her dropped her holy tears bcoz of me. plus a significant change ,drop out from skolah agama. i donno why & started questioning her what a big deal finishing my lousy academy & syariah in skolah agama.
All kinds of punishments , method , prayers ..pulled toward my behaviors... i remember all of it and proud of it..not because for being spoiled ( i dont think im a spoiled brat )even tough me quite immunised ..but im proud bcoz i have a loving mom.

When you was a kid you hated your parents for many reasons ..e.i..for make you an errand boy/gal.." Dol..p kedai sat beli kicap & blah blah" so you have to dragged you so lame arse and missed out your fav cartoon show 11am every saturday.. " alaa nanti tak bley ke mak!!" me muttered wiz sinister eyes..
same goes with kelas fardu ain..i remembered spending all my fardu ain monthly fees at video games arcade ( at that times..street fighter & metal slug are so kooll!! )
in resulted ..libasan demi libasan.. belt & mcm2 lg house ware..
its not my intention to show my mom's way to educate me is A class.. but it made me no what is RIGHT and what is WRONG>.,Learn From Mistake..and many more.. ( go figure
SO..HAVE you figure out todays modern parenting??how would you educate / bend your child..

( this is a random opinion )
aku ada agreement yang ko kena spank anak2 bila dia masih kecik. bila dia masih bodoh nak faham pasal dunia. sebab...you can't reason with kids. they're just too much of pain in the ass for the explaining to be there. However, as they reach 10-12, you should reduce the beating...cause you can start reason with them. just occasionally beat them for things they still don't understand.

then, you can talk like an adult with them after 13 years old. kids should be taught about responsibility as early as 7 years old. let the motherfucker wash their own school shoes or deny their request for toys (granted only few times). ask them to wash the dishes or babysit the smaller motherfucker. you need to cause otherwise they will fucked up since they can't see that they should be responsible to what they do. kids should never be allowed to be kids at all time. if you start providing them with responsibilities, they will become more matured. also, don't limit this to girls only...ask the boys to wash the dishes, do the laundry etc also. be fair cause boys shouldn't get advantage because they have balls. equal treatment to all of them is just the way should do it.

im so annoy with parents who blaming the teachers for their kids sins..( ywah..idup cikgu!!)ex " asal cikgu simply lempang anak sya yg innocent ni.. dia budak baik..tak pernah pijak lipas pun..kalo cikgu sentuh dia lagi, im suing your sorry arse..u stupid cheap whore" ( aku tmbah je tuh)..as for my mom & brothers ( i got very da garang bro)" cikgu bedal je la si Ryan ni,kalo dia bwat jahat, jgn patah riuk sudah"..so when ever i told my mom , i got canned in school.. she will autmatically gave the bonus on the dot ( Get the point?)
mostly modern parenting also tought their child with money ( rasuahh ..keji )
you got to earn it, you got to contribute...not because i rasuah you and you want to do it. that's why most kids didn't have motivation to study when their parent didn't give hadiah for good result. cuba tak bagi duit saku kalau dia tak dapat good result, haaa..baru dia rasa.

i personally annoy with few parents who practice western parenthood to their childs.
ex,Atan grounded for a week ,for cheating on UPSR, or ponteng kelas piano..( WTF!!)
" go seat at the end of the corridor and think why smoking pot is bad for you!"
just admit, we practiced modern western lifestyle juz to look kool, look like a decent family, educated family..got style..( STYLE MY ARSE>>!!) im not so jealous on your RIAK's lifestyle ..but sedarlah diri tuh..have some faith in ALLah, sunnah Nabi, basic/Islamic fundamental ..terapkan lah kat anak tuh.. teach your child takut kan Allah, bukan bcoz what ppl say, bukan bcoz malukan masyarakat mengata..
pity.. on parents nowadays..i remembered a fren told me his story being lecture by a cop.." Kamu sedarlah , mak bapak korang kat kg sana, menyembah pokok getah, membanting tulang nk antar korang p belajar tinggi2.." alih2 korang bawak balik dakyah kafir and act cool with it,
Hope your fuckin MBA,Phd..will help you dalam kubur nanti..
..panas! pnass!... ( ape ku da melencong ni )



i have so much to rage but my mind started blurry as tons of pending emails need to be action.. urghh.. will continue ... later k..

my ways... how about you?

hows your interpretation toward this lyric?

And now, the end is here
And so I face the final curtain
My friend, I'll say it clear
I'll state my case, of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I traveled each and ev'ry highway
And more, much more than this, I did it my way

Regrets, I've had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do and saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course, each careful step along the byway
And more, much more than this, I did it my way

Yes, there were times, I'm sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all, when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall and did it my way

I've loved, I've laughed and cried
I've had my fill, my share of losing
And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing
To think I did all that
And may I say, not in a shy way,
"Oh, no, oh, no, not me, I did it my way"

For what is a man, what has he got?
If not himself, then he has naught
To say the things he truly feels and not the words of one who kneels
The record shows I took the blows and did it my way!

(P. Anka, J. Revaux, G. Thibault, C. Frankois)

[Recorded December 30, 1968, Hollywod]..
'song that make me PROUD for who i am now.

FB..what the ....

Hi there... shd i start my fb or not?.. after all this years.. it was me and my FS and Myspace... lot of memories (sweet and sour) wiz its but... rather close it down.Somebody asked me to start my own FB.. and as a IT holic.. i started FB's on..

hmm i forgot..u may check by ur own..and..what's my objective with FB..?
1st day fb.. nothing much.. still learning..more too R&D..hmm no so bad.. no wonder most of my frens got 1..
ok..1st step..make bunch of frens... need more connection wiz ppl.. after all dis years..alone..
lost in my own cold cage..me and my secret..me and my feeling..after all this years... nobody really know me..even my family...till i meet her..
next step.. play bowling buddies... versus my frens... hahhaha.. after weeks...finally im the leading top scorer..hahah.. good to feel of winning ..so ever since.. all bout learning bout applications in fb..plus added few more new frens day after day.. wanna bit the rest.. wiz bigger connx in FB.. expand my empire..of frens..
haha.. wat a nice profile pic..ermm still got the skill aa mok ( thanks to photoshop CS ).. it has been a long i havent touch my pc after ... ermm no interest ..fuckin tired wiz my job..coz i spends more time in ofc than home..such a no homeholic..haha..